No experience of the Crux/Lightwave though they do sound good and if i was in the market they'd be amongst those I'd try. The Granite Gear Vapor Trail is the comfiest pack I've ever had on with weights up to about 30 - 35 pounds and goes from about 50 to 60 litres with the collar extension.
Useful huge open stretch side pockets and sturdy compression straps over the front of the pack to which you can lash wet waterproofs or flysheet.
Comes in a range of back sizes so you should be able to get one to fit well without the weight penalty of an adjustable back system.
Comes in at around a kilo. There may be a durability issue as low-ish weight achieved with light-ish fabrics but I haven't had any problems with mine.
Agree with Mike though, although aware that some just don't get on with the golite frameless packs. The Jam is a good pack if packed well and with a sleep mat of some description either unrolled inside to form a more rigid 'tube' to pack into or folded against the back to offer a bit of semi rigid support.
Can be done either with a closed cell or a mostly deflated thermarest type mat. Of course, if it doesn't fit - it doesn't fit, but could be worth a go before making the change.