I think wet feet in winter are pretty much a no-no, certainly uncomfortable and, depending on the exact conditions, potentially dangerous.
But like you, Simo, I've had too many pairs of lightweight goretex-lined footwear fail on me (including a pair of otherwise great Salomon Elios Mids), to be prepared to spend around £100 a time to try any more. My heaviest winter boots are goretex but I've found the lining much more durable in heavier boots.
Otherwise I've got two options. The first is a good quality leather boot (Meindl Borneos fit me well), not especially light but not exactly heavy, very durable and effectively waterproof.
The second is stretch goretex socks (not Sealskinz) in my standard (Inov8) trail shoes. They're not that easy to find these days but I've got some Rocky and some Gore Bikewear varieties (the Gore ones probably more available these days). They work well over a merino sock, and when they do give up (usually the taping I reckon)at least you've only lost a £25 sock rather than a £100 shoe!
I suppose a slightly leftfield third option, depending where you're walking, is something like a Nokian Trimmi