joe, this is a perennial problem, and I posted up a thread about the new Montane Superfly XT just yesterday - like the old Superfly XT, not available in women's fit, only the standard Superfly.
The majority of outdoor gear manufacturers appear to produce fewer options in women's fit than men's, and the optimistically labelled 'unisex' fit usually means 'basically men's, but maybe a tad less tight at certain points, but probably not at the hips where it really matters'. Haglofs, as Jon has pointed out to me, is virtually the only manufacturer that don't discriminate.
Why do Paramo make an Aspira Jacket and Smock for men, but only a Smock for women? And why are their women's colours usually so utterly awful?!!
Montane do an Extreme Jacket for women and an Extreme Smock for men; I'm not aware of any difference in the feel of the outer.