Steve, thanks a million for the offer its extremely decent of you. I was going to ring ULOG tomorrow to check up on the price until I read Llywelyn's post... yikes! Anyway my parents are going to see my sister in the States where I normally have any American purchases sent. They'll be able to bring it back with them along with a few other bits and bobs

REI has stock... going through the buying process shows that with air shipping (the only option) it would cost $31 plus any/all UK/US taxes.
Guy in fairness to ULOG I doubt its totally down to them. The stove is £75 here yet $70 in US which even if you decide to pay the sales tax means that your paying a substantial additional mark-up here.
Anyway I've had occasion to have an email conversation with Soto and it wasn't too hard to get the very real impression that they've massively over stretched themselves with the distribution of their stoves.