Well.... The litespeed pretty well is that sort of compromise, as is anything using a microlite weight sort of fabric rather than ~quantum.
The durability of quantum weight ones does seem to be a bit debatable. One fabric I would worry about with a pack etc is GL - Montane put abrasion ratings up on their website and it rates to a quarter of microlite..... Pricy too.
(I'm pretty sure its 1/2 that of 'standard' quantum, although as Montane seem to have dropped that from their range now, hard to be certain!).
In some ways my ideal would be a hooded version of the featherlite - can't see why it'd come in above ~130g.