Getting caught out in the dark isn't so bad anyway. Pretty much de rigeur for Scottish winter days, but everyone has to start somewhere. One interesting theory is that the fragmented nature of our society means that people are less likely to belong to clubs, and if there are members, there isn't the same ethic of passing on information from the experienced to novices. So, people aren't learning hill skills in the way they used to.
Whether that's true or not, I have not idea. I've picked stuff up over the years from a mix of school trips, formal courses, friends, clubs and practical experience.
Also, it's interesting the way your perception alters with experience. I still really enjoy UK hills and don't underestimate them, but being on bigger things abroad definitely makes you more confident about dealing with stuff at home.
By the way, I'm a Scorpio and thus dark, brooding and passionate and inclined to hold grudges forever...