Julian - I hope you can prove your Zaire adventues or big bad grumpy granda Kev will be after you with a sharpened spork...
Big Kev! is that a childhood nickname thats's stuck around awhile, a grateful lovers tag or just self titled to make yourself feel a wee bid harder! I see on your blog you have a soft spot for "Sloman" , another true hard scottish mountain man with a foul mouth... Why a grown man would resort to petty name calling is beyond my understanding.
THink about this.. If Bedders is genuine and has travelled the world and can be a bit overbearing at times then your pleading for photographic evidence is kinda stupid, however you have the right to detest him.
If he is a totally deluded soul hunched around his PC making this all up in a fantasy world then aren't you being very cruel and heartless towards someone who needs your pity not your scorn!